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As many of you probably realise by now I am not a fashion blogger, however, this does not mean I love clothes any less. I was very intrigued when I stumbled across THIS article regarding uniform sizing in Australia and the fact it was a too hard basket and supposedly pointless exercise.

What intrigued me most was not that Australia and it’s fashion industry refuse to make this happen or that sadly yet unsurprisingly Australian’s don’t see fashion as being a “high growth economic industry”  but it was the fact that there a women who buy clothing that doesn’t fit based on the number on the label.

Are you serious ladies?

Having packed on a bit of weight since my late teenager years I quickly learned the best way to fake still been skinny was to stop wearing clothing that was too tight and to only focus on building a wardrobe of items that FIT. By fit it meant that it didn’t matter if the dress said 14 (to fit over my large bosoms) or a pair of jeans that say size 10 but totally would  have been too big five years ago.

For someone who desperately wants to lose weight to get back to a healthy weight range I can completely understand the pain that vanity causes us to feel when we have to go for the larger size on the rack. But if that larger size means that we won’t have a muffin top then shouldn’t that be enough?

Body confidence is a major issue with women of all sizes but it does shock me to realise that women are buying smaller sizes for the tag not for their body.

Having started a 6 week sewing class last week – more on that to come – I have realised the benefits of clothes matching your actual size measurements not the size you wish you were. Custom made clothing is surprisingly easier to master than people think, provided you have a sewing machine and money for material and patterns but once you have mastered it, it can only mean good things – especially for the vain among us.

Making your own clothes will mean that you decide what label goes onto your clothing. Or better still just cut out the tag when you get home from the store – that works too!

In all honesty I think that people are still thinking of themselves and their weight in complete black and white. Everything seems to focus on skinny versus fat rather than focusing on healthy versus unhealthy. So ladies let’s change the focus en masse and let it be about our hearts and our health not a size.

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Ever got to interview stage and thought you were the right match in terms of job fit and culture fit but then just missed out? Interview faux-pas are not just about what you say. Research has been done to show it may be your makeup and attire that causes you to drop the ball so it’s best to know ahead of time how to secure that position.

I read an interesting article last week regarding a survey that was conducted in America with hiring managers in regards to what they found offensive or unacceptable. It highlights the fact that regardless of whether your CV is a standout…your beauty routine may have actually being the cause of you missing out on your dream job.

Being a recruitment consultant myself for a large international firm I can definitely understand why these seemingly minute discriminations are costing people roles. In an ever tightening market where jobs are scarce and job hunters are in the hundreds for each individual role than it unfortunately does come down to the little things.

Resumes are the first chance you get to sell yourself and I have posted some quick tips on this topic previously. The interview is definitely the next step to shine, but hopeful job seekers need to remember it is where the concept of ‘first impressions count’ reigns supreme over ‘don’t judge a book by its cover’.

Meeting with potential candidates on a regular basis and then sending them off for interviews and temporary assignments with clients I have learnt a thing or two about what is expected. At this point you have put in too much effort in getting to this point to let it be ruined by an aesthetically displeasing presentation. Research shows that hiring managers and interviewers make up their mind about potential candidates within the first eight seconds and the rest of the interview is spent either confirming this opinion or turning it around. These reasons are why it is important to always present the best version of yourself at interviews and here are some tips that may just help you out.

OUTFIT: Now is not the time to wear those new coloured jeans, thongs (flip flops) or sequined jacket you just bought. It is best to dress corporate even if you are going for a fashion-minded position like retail. Also neutral colours work best as you never know how people will react to certain colours. Best choice for men is a dark suit and tie, though this can be altered to dark dressy jeans, buttoned shirt and tie for the non corporate/office roles.

For women, a simple but stylish matching suit dress and jacket or skirt and jacket works well and choose a sheer white blouse to go with the skirt option. For bigger busted girls (myself included) it is best to avoid button up at interview stage for fear of gaping…I shouldn’t need to explain why!

SHOES: Choose sensible black pumps and always wear stockings at interview stage – yes even on a hot day. It is neater and looks more complete. Unless you are really tall avoid flats for corporate interviews as I have heard them described as casual wear for around the office or while seated at your desk.

NAILS: The picture above is an indication of things to avoid so make sure you address those points. For nails best to cut short and neat and either keep natural or apply a clear gloss polish. For fake nails make sure your infill’s are done prior to interview day and keep it to white tip French polish for that fortnight.

FACE: Keep makeup simple and flawless to achieve a corporate look make sure your foundation is blended well and not caked on. Use black liquid liner for top lashes and simple black mascara on top lashes. Use whatever blush looks best on your skin type but don’t try for too bronzed or too rosy, keep it simple and understated!  When it comes to the lips opt for a natural lip colour like rose type colours for us white girls! If you have a darker complexion, I trust that you know what looks best on you. Avoid bright reds, pinks and sadly anything that really stands out, as like the article states it may be interpreted the wrong way.

HAIR: make sure your hair looks styled. Today is not the day to go for that tousled, just-got-back-from-the-beach hair. Either straighten your hair or do styled curls. Another option if it suits your face is to go for a small quiff with a pulled back pony tail. The neater the better and when in doubt think Blair Waldorf of Gossip Girl.

For corporate interviews it is best to keep it neat, simple and understated for best impact. Know how to do a proper handshake and be prepared on the company, the role and your career and education history. Good luck with the interviews and please comment below with any stories or tips you have come across! Have you ever been told you missed the boat due to your presentation at interview?

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After joining the likes of many famous and non-famous ladies (myself included) to chop off a head of lush locks 19-year-old Miss Miley Cyrus is sadly copping a lot of flack on social media for her latest hair-do or dare I say lack thereof.

She said of her new look:

“Never felt more me in my whole life; feeling so happy in my skin”

After she posted pics of the very grunge-rock platinum blonde shaved undercut style twitter and Facebook immediately flooded with comments from horrified fans resulting in Miss Miley to comment further:

 ”if you don’t have something nice to say don’t say anything at all. my hair is attached to my head no one else’s and it’s going bye bye :)

 

 

Back in 2010, Miss Emma Watson found herself in a similar situation when, after years of committing to a full head of hair for the role of Hermione in the blockbuster Harry Potter series, she opted to chop it all off and rock the sweet pixie girl look. Emma also seemed to find the whole experience as liberating and self fulfilling as Miley, stating:

“Cut my hair off a few days ago… Feels incredible. I love it. I’ve wanted to do this for years and years; it’s the most liberating thing ever. Hope you like it.”

Back in 2006 at 19 years old, after a break up and a decision that it was time to become “all grown up”, I did the same. I chopped off all my hair (to the horror of my mother and some others around me) in a short style leaving me with a fringe and about an inch of hair all over. The day the heavy locks fell to the floor of a salon in my hometown, my whole sense of self changed and I felt incredibly uplifted and relieved. It was as if cutting of my hair signified me letting go of all the emotional baggage I had been carrying around. The new hairstyle had its advantages – it was easy and fun to style; I no longer needed to scrounge around my house in desperate need of a hair tie; and I felt confident in my sense of self.

Miss Kitty circa 2008

Having experienced the liberation and not giving a sh*t about what anyone else thinks about feeling more you than ever before when opting for the chop, I can completely understand why these young ladies have done it regardless of the inevitable backlash they receive as part of their role in the fame spotlights.

Part of it feels like a coming of age self-initiation where you step out of the constraints of been told how to wear your hair and what style you should have. It allows you to feel in control of your own personal brand and the sense of self of not giving a damn when you step out  and whether you decide to keep it that way or grow it all back (like I did) it just damn well feels great. It shows that you have confidence in yourself and even more so it defies traditional conventions of what feminine beauty is. Rocking a short do – no matter what the style – is a chance to highlight other feminine features that often stay hidden behind gorgeous locks – your cheekbones, forehead, sculpted eyebrows.

When you are no longer just a girl but not quite a woman, chopping off your locks is a perfect way to take control of your body, your style and your own self. In my experience it can be a crucial stepping stone in learning to become who you really are without hiding that girl behind your hair.

So to girls like Miley and Emma who take that chance to liberate themselves and make their own waves – good on you! And to all the haters that judge unnecessarily – it’s not about you so go look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself why so-and-so’s latest hair style is such an important part of your world?

Life is short, so why not your hair too?

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An outfit that lights up a room!

 

Another Tuesday, another work outfit! I bought this sheer electric blue blouse the other week and last week I wore it with a similar outift only with a black skirt. This week I teamed it with grey and I think it works equally as well. As you can see from my picture below I have dyed my hair! I was this colour for almost a year and it took me ages to get it back to almost natural…it is only semi-permanent so a nice way to spice things up for a little while on these chilly winter days. As you can tell by the way I’m rugged up it was particularly cold today with bitey winds in Wollongong though I know for a fact it was much colder inland!

What I Wore:

  • Electric Blue Headband from Gloss
  • Black Scarf from Dangerfield
  • Electric Blue Blouse from Tattoo, Stockland Shellharbour
  • Blue Basic Singlet from Supre
  • Black Suit Jacket from Supre
  • Black Stockings from Woolworths
  • Grey Zip Ballet Flats from Kmart
  • Finer details: Butterfly Ring from Tree of Life and Heart Bracelet from Prouds
  • Nail Polish: O.P.I - Curry Don’t Be Late
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Sometimes at work it gets a little difficult meeting both the corporate dress code as well as displaying a sense of my personality. I combat this on most days by adding colourful tights, jewellery or nice shoes. My easy technique to get dressed each day for work is to team a pretty dress with a suit jacket with tights and heels. This particular day I wore my blue alphabet tights and unfortunately got the one thing one never wants when they wear their favourite pair of stockings – a ladder!! So sadly these tights will be no more.

What I Wore:

  • Silver hoop earrings from Prouds
  • Necklace from Equip
  • Grey dress from Tempt
  • Suit jacket from Supre
  • Alphabet tights from Asos
  • Black high-heeled anklet boots from Novo
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Everyone has certain aspects of their style that make them feel like all is right in the world when they wear them. Things that even your friends would describe as “very you”. For me there are a number of things and I thought I would share them with you today.

Leopard print in any shape or form

 

Black with silver studs,

 

on anything...and red hair (yes that was me two NYE's ago)

 

Shoes, lots of pretty shoes.

 

Cute leather jackets and bows in my hair.

 

Pink sequins

 

Shiny things and kitty cats.

Did I mention pretty shoes?

 

So what is it about your style that is oh so very you? Is there anything in particular that is a constant staple in your wardrobe?

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Welcome

First of all a big thank you to you for joining me at Make Your Own Waves. I’m Miss Kitty all the way from South Coast NSW  and you can read more at my about me page. Thank you for joining me on this journey and I hope to see you back here. This site will go through everything from life lessons I’ve learnt, motivation techniques, what I know about love, all the way through to hair, make up and all things fashion (especially shoes).

Today was five days into winter yet as you can see from the pictures below it was a sunny Sunday…a last little teaser from the sun before winter truly sets in.

I decided to celebrate the sun with a bright coloured dress and kept cosy by teaming it with boots and a jacket. It was so warm in the sun that there was no need for tights for the first time all week!

The Little Blowhole in Kiama was going particularly crazy today and a lovely guy Peter and his wife helped me get some good shots as the blowhole shot up in the background.

What I Wore:

  • Orange dress
  • Brown jacket (This jacket is more than 7 years old and I have it in another 4 colours!)
  • Brown belt
  • Brown boots

Love & Leopard Print

Miss Kitty

xo

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